For some couples, caring for a sick partner feels like looking after a grown child.

A recent survey conducted by Talker Research revealed that 1 in 3 Americans describe their significant other as a “baby” when they are under the weather. The survey, conducted between December 5 and 9, 2024, included over 900 people living with a partner, and highlighted other common traits of sick partners—besides a regression to infancy.

One-quarter of partners were labeled stubborn, followed by 23 percent deemed dramatic, and 22 percent unwilling to admit they are ill at all.

But winter illnesses seem to take a toll on nearly everyone. Respondents to the survey said they feel completely healthy for only 16 days of the average winter month. While symptoms such as lack of energy, coughing and sore throats were among the usual suspects, many people also reported unexpected side effects, like losing track of days, arguing with loved ones, and even misplacing objects in unassuming places.

“Winter’s a tough time of year and often busy, so feeling off form can really hamper us,” said Marcela Kanalos, a spokesperson for Zipfizz, which commissioned the survey. “That takes its toll on our moods, energy and overall enjoyment of life.”

Coping and Quirks

When illness strikes, most people reach for tried-and-true remedies, such as resting, staying hydrated or taking medicine. But the survey also revealed some of the more unusual things people do while battling colds and flus. Forgetting to pick up a child from school, wearing mismatched shoes, and accidentally throwing a phone in the trash were just a few of the more extreme mishaps respondents admitted to.

One particularly common theme was the verbal toll of being sick. Those who are unwell tend to mention their condition at least a couple of times a day until they are back to full health—something their partners are unlikely to miss.

Despite popular stereotypes about gender differences, the survey found men and women complain about illness at roughly the same rate.

Staying Ahead of Sickness

When it comes to avoiding any winter woes, most people rely on simple, proactive habits like drinking plenty of water, taking vitamins and getting enough rest. These small steps can make a big difference, according to Kanalos.

“Just simply staying on top of your hydration can make or break your winter season,” she said.

So, while you may be tempted to roll your eyes the next time your partner mopes about feeling under the weather, remember you are not alone. And maybe, just maybe, you’ve done the same.